TheProtagonist5

So, um...yea...Living in Chicago

Log Book Entry
Me
[info]theprotagonist5

Since this is the longest running blog/log I have I thought I should post an update of what is happening as of late.

It's november already? October flew by fast and so did Halloween. We didn't do the costume thing this year as we were too busy working. Steve has had a lot of work to do (that only he can do) for clients despite the market being so slow and his pay cut for himself and his employees due to the costs of the business. I have had more to do since we lost 2 analysts here and I now have 13 clients. That is an average of 2 days I can spend with each client and most take 3-4 days to complete a report and present it. We both have been working weekends and the work around the house has come to a standstill.

The bathroom is not finished, it hasn't been worked on in about a month due to our day jobs taking over our lives. We did talk with someone who wanted to quote the cabinet refacing job but they wanted $12,000. (Quality kitchens from Geneva, IL ) Um, no. Its a small kitchen, a bathroom cabinet and a small wet bar. The doors, laminate and granite don't cost that much. We have to go back to HomeDepot's service and see if they can do a detailed quote and get the project done right for less money. They originally quoted $6,000 but it did not include the upstairs wet bar or bathroom. I'd like to do this soon but I am not sure we will find someone both competent and affordable. We can't do it ourselves, it would take 3 years.

I also found out I have a thyroid nodule. It is 1.2 CM wide and sits under my thyroid on the esopagus on the right side. I have seen a regular Dr, an endocrineologist and now have to go to a surgeon and have it removed. (all the thyroid blood tests were normal) There is a biopsy they do to try and see if it is cancer, but after 3 tries, nothing was able to be extracted, just fluid, no cells to analyze. This could be good or bad. One of the 4 types of thyroid cancer is not detectable with the FNA biopsy and I may have that. Who knows how far it has spread too, since the first doctor to say that my thyroid looked big was back in 2006. I could have cancer everywhere by now, who knows. I see the surgeon on Nov 25th to plan out when to remove the tumor.

The holidays are approaching fast and although I would like a happy time with the family I am not so much into the gifts this year. With the wedding we have more stuff than we could possibly need and our family/parents are pretty happy too. Maybe this year is a no-gift year? It would save a ton of time too.

I am trying to learn to cook, but all the results have been me getting fatter thus far. I eat more when I cook, which sux. Steve is the easiest to please ever with food, as long as it doesn't involve a tomato you can put it in front of him and he will eat it. I need to find more low fat recipies too since my cholesterol is still sky high and blood pressure also. It is startling to see how much fat is in all meats, even fish like salmon and other common pre-made foods. About the only thing that is low fat that I like so far is instant oatmeal.


Slowest Bathroom Remodel Ever
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
We have been trying to attempt to remodel our downstairs powder bathroom over the last month. It is going very slowly and may eventually end up being the slowest remodel on record ever. I don't know how these remodel shows do these things in a few days.

Week 1 - We took down the wallpaper with water, it came off reasonably well. We had to remove the toilet to get behind there to remove that portion.

Week 2 - We removed the wallpaper glue. This involved a lot of scubbing.

Week 3 - We removed the old vanity cabinet, sink and faucet combo and bought the counter top, a faucet and some paint. We also spackled some nail holes.

Week 4 - We hope to paint the walls a mocha color in one or two coats this weekend

Week 5 - We might actually install the new vanity cabinet

Week 6 - Maybe install the plumbing, faucet and put the toilet back in the bathroom

Week 7 - Maybe hang the accessories like the toilet bowl holder and the towel bar

Part of the problem is that we have no idea what we are doing. We took like an hour to figure out what kinds of paint there are and that we wanted satin finish on the woodwork and eggshell for the walls and we wanted the primer in the paint. It took us at least an hour to match the paint swatches in beige with the counter top and wood color also. The faucet was easier, we just looked at the demo photo for the vanity and got one that was bronze like that.

Another problem is during the week we get home somewhere between 8 and 9 pm and by the time we eat dinner its 10. If we get home any earlier Steve has a required TV time of at least an hour. Then he manages his fantasy football team online for at least another hour. Why he can't just take the Yahoo ratings and do what they suggest I have no idea. And I am not really able to do most of this myself because I am not very mechanically inclined. So the only day we can do anything is Saturday. (Sunday I have to go to my parents to visit so that creates issues too) 

Maybe I will do the painting this weekend just to get it done. Plus, Steve is a bit of a perfectionist so he is very slow. It took him like 3 hours to remove the cabinet. Its a bit nauseating but at least its getting done slowly. We can't seem to get much more done on weekends either. A max of about 4-5 hours a week is all we have to spend on this so it will continue to go slow.

I suppose the good news is that for the cabinet, mirror, faucet, paint and counter top it will be just under $1,000 to remodel the bathroom.  We are keeping the plain white toilet and the oak flooring and may re-use the light fixture if I can spray paint it bronze. My parents just remodeled their 2 bathrooms with new tile floors, vanities, faucets, mirrors and light fixtures. Their's cost about $4,000 each because they hired someone to do it. They kept the original aqua blue tub, toilet and tile in the shower. They also re-usd the aqua sink. ( It may look kitchy to some, but we like our aqua tile. )  So I feel like Steve and I are at least doing this for less money since we just really want to sell the place.

I can't wait until we start remodeling the kitchen and the other bathroom!  At this rate we will be remodeling well into the spring.

Weekly Update
Me
[info]theprotagonist5

It seems that the weeks are passing faster now that we have passed a month of being married. Things are less about congrats and thank you notes and more about keeping up with cleaning the litterbox and the demands of work. Luckilly we get to the point where we're both so exhausted that we don't even mind sleeping next to someone who wheezes with allergies at night.

We had a bunch of scares with the cats latley and everything seems to be fine but it's never fun. First Zeus was walking on 3 legs. Not a good start to a Sunday. Steve's mom thought it was likley a common sprain so we waited to see if it got better and confined him to the bedroom to lessen the chance of him jumping on it. In 2 days it got a lot worse. By the time we managed to get him to the vet Tuesday evening he somehow cut his paw also and it was bleeding in the carrier. When we got to the vet he was not letting the vet touch it to see it and they couldn't give him anything to make him sedated because it was so late in the day and he couldn't stay overnight. So they put a muzzle on him that covered his eyes and then tried to trim the fur on the paw. That didn't go well. Luckilly after all that trauma he got an antibiotic shot that lasts 10 days instead of having to be fed medicine 2x per day for 10 days, of which cats always hate. The thing was, we could find a cut on his paw and it was evry swolen but we couldn't see if anything was in the cut causing it and the vet things he got this from a fight with the other cats. (that have no claws and are half his size?) So we never did figure things out. But we thought that the health issues was over when he was noticeable better the next day and improved back to normal within the next 3 but we were wrong.

The next thing that came up was that Zeus was sneezing. Its an odd sound to hear a cat sneeze. On Zeus it is a high pitched sound that could only come from some kind of child's toy not a cat. We started hearing it about the time the paw issue came up but it got worse every day after that. Again we were told to wait by the vet because the antibiotic was supposed to help him get better and could address many different things at once. He didn't get better, he seemed to get worse to the point on Saturday that he wasn't eating or doing much of anything. On Monday I took him back to the vet again with his runny eye and compulsive licking and cleaning his face so that he was clean even though he was a pretty sneezy-slimy cat at that point. The vet looked at him and noted that his fever was down to 102 from 104 the last time he was in and the snot was clear not yellow or green. That combined with the one eye running determined that he thought Zeus had a common upper respratory infection from cat herpes. I was floored, how is that even possible? Apparently its common in shelter cats, not really like the human form and brought on by stress. The paw was the stress and he lived in a shelter for 6 months before I adopted him so there was the way he probably got it. Or by us bringing it home on our clothing from one of the Yates foster cats (Lincoln) that was sneezing and had a runny evey about a month ago. Ether way, he got his lyzene amino acid treats and we went about our daily routine.

 

Zeus is better now even though he does favor his right paw over the left and he is back to stalking cinnamon every chance he gets.

Pogo on the other hand had to get his teeth cleaned and they found that he has lost over 1 lb since December. We had them do a senior cat blood screen and everything came back normal. So we are trying to get him to eat kitten food to see if that adds some weight because it is a richer food.  We don't know why he would be loosing weight, so this is another mystery left unanswered.

I love having the cats around, they are so entertaining and affectionate but the health problems can get expensive and take a full time job to figure out what is going on and how to get them to the vet to treat it. I am usually gone from 7 amd to 7 pm so it usually takes me getting a day off when a client isn't needing something urgently and taking him in. Steve always just thinks they're fine and doesn't think they need to go in to the vet. I hope he isn't that way when the hypothetical kids are sneezing and have a fever of 102. Anyway it's been a learning experience.

This weekend we decided to loaf around because Steve was in a crappy mood because he had to lay off an employee due to their business being really low for the year. This is the peril of being a business owner. So we just tried to go to Carmen & Sam's birthday picnic BBQ thing at the forest preserve (I had never done this before) and it rained most of the time. We came late so we missed the first 2 rain bursts but we got the third one. I thought I was going to get soaked as I saw the tent/awning thing fly up off its scafolding in the wind. After that in the next lull in rain we spent the rest of the storm in the car. What was weird was that about 1/2 the people bailed and went home and about half stayed, soaking wet because they had planned on spending the day there. Needless to say Steve stayed. I left and Simon drove him home at 8 pm. It was an exausting and soaking wet day.

Almost a month Married!
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
I know I run the risk of alienating a lot of people if I only blog about my wedding and being married, but its kind of what's happening in my life right now. It has been a busy 3 weeks since the wedding. The initial shock of having to open all the cards, the gifts and then open some joint bank accounts to deposit things in 3 days before going back to work was fast. Since then we have gotten more into a normal schedule not having to stay up till 2 am every night making sure people's names are spelled correctly on place cards and seating charts and making sure all the wedding vendor bills are paid.

We now stay up late trying to figure out what our finances will look like in a year or more and if we can afford to buy a house and get settled somewhere. We're a bit full in Steve's 2 br townhouse, and all my furniture is in his parent's basement, which we would like to get out of there as soon as we can. The bottom line is we can afford to buy some kind of house, but not quite what we would like. It is actually possible on 2 incomes, but on 1 income if we decide to have a kid or 2, my income goes down to 1/2 or less and all of that money goes back into child care when I would be working. So, its really a game of planning on one income. And we aren't rolling in it by any means since we both make a little more than the national average, and almost the same amount.

You would think buying a house at a discount would be easy right now, with all the home sales stagnant for the last year. And we could have gotten a deal if we would have been ready to buy a few months ago but now things are selling fast. The homes with the re-done kitchens and bathrooms are no longer sitting on the market and dropping their prices. 4 of the 9 houses I have tried to look at in the last week have sold. And that is just Naperville-Wheaton-Lisle, IL. There are plenty of old run down properties on the market that have 1960-70-80s kitchens and baths and need a ton of work, but they aren't really any cheaper than the ones that have been re-done so you just have to spend another 25K+ on top of buying those houses. So what's the point of buying one of those?

So, although I would like to wait to buy until 2010, I think prices will jump by then. We probably have to find something this fall and start looking at something soon. The good news is that between the 2 of us we can put down a sizeable down payment, even after paying all the wedding bills. (especially thanks to the generosity of both of our parents in their wedding gifts) So there is hope for having a low enough monthly payment that we can still handle it on one salary someday.

Everything else about being married is great. Its just this financial decision making that seems to keep us anxious. And we don't fight about it at all, it is just that the perspective we each bring to the table is different. Steve is more about finding something in the right location and that has a lot of space, I am more about having perfect kitchen/bath spaces and a low monthly payment. The 2.5x your salary rule isn't helping a lot either because what it says on 2 salaries is way different than on 1 and that isn't near the size of what Steve wants in a house.

The things that have been going well since the wedding are that our schedules are better and getting up in the morning is much easier when you actually get sleep. The cooking is good since we have some new pots and pans to try out and we actually have time to cook! I even did some cooking myself last night. We are finding places for everything from the wedding slowly, or it gets put in Steve's parent's basement. We are even visiting both sets of parents a bit more equally, since his mom has been fostering Kittens and we go to visit them too. We also started the process of making Steve's house more sell-able with installing a new dishwasher and a new lighting fixture in the bathroom. There are more lights and more things to come there in the next few months. Steve even squeezes in some TV every night since he really missed that when we were so busy. I'm not sure why he is so into his TV but it is important to him and harmless so its ok by me.

Everything else is really the same as before the wedding, the biggest change is trying to figure out how to merge finances. We really tackled a lot of the merging household stuff in February/March and it was a little bit stressfull sometimes then but we seem to have merged into a daily routine and know what eachother needs on that level now so it isn't much different except we both get to wear rings now. I still haven't done the official name change documents but hopefully I will in a few weeks when I can take a day off work. I am coming up on the beginning of the month with a ton of reports due so this probably won't be possible for a while yet.

Moving Day Complete - Anyone want to buy a sofa?
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
We hired movers to do the last leg of the move out of my condo and they completed this yesterday. There were 10 pieces of furniture and 3 mirrors that had to be moved down 3 flights of stairs, into the moving truck driven to Glen Ellyn and then loaded in Steve's parent's basement for storage. All this took about 4 hours and cost $719.00. I think it was worth every penny.

Three guys from All American United Moving in Elmhurst showed up on time and got going quickly. They were very good at this and made moving large furniture look easy. They did seem to have trouble with looking at the best way to fit furniture through tight doorways based on the shape because they would back in and out a few times before they got things through, but other than that it was really happening quite quickly. They wrapped the sofas in burlap wraps and then added a wide plastic wrap over it to protect them. Then they also used a long fabric strap to hold pieces when one person was higher on the stairs than the other or to hold it up on their back. It was quite humerous that the smallest of the 3 guys had my piano roll cabinet srapped to his back and walked it down like a backpack. I took some pictures, I may make a collage and post to flickr later this week.

The thing about moving is that it is so exhausting with all the time it takes and the trips back and forth. We initially packed up a lot of clutter and some small furniture to stage the condo back in November, these items are stored in Steve's parent's basement. Next, we probably made 4 trips to my place to bring things over initially in February that were essentials (like Zeus' litterbox and my clothes). We also probably have made at least 6 trips with both Steve's car and mine with a lot of other things that can be integrated in to his house (plates, pots, pans, books, small furniture) and my parents and brother helped pack and move a large load last weekend to storage in the basement too. All in all, we're tired out and nobody wanted to move anything else. So, we got movers for the big empty furniture and Steve and I carried the drawers to the bedroom set in our cars (because the bakelite handles are brittle and easy to break).

There were some tricky moments, where the sofa and the buffet didn't want to fit through doorways or around corners of the stairway. The guys couldn't believe that Mike and my brother got that sofa upstairs and that my uncle got the 7 ft long buffet up the stairs strapped to a hand cart. They asked if any of them wanted to work for them based on that knowledge. They also agreed that my "small" move was about as difficult as the baby grand piano that they moved the day before. The truck also was tricky to get in the driveway of Steve's parent's house. It almost hit the power lines and was hitting the tree a lot too. The narrow one lane driveway was also tricky because they had to back in and the truck almost took the entire width. Steve's mom's flowers were dangerously close to being run over.

And now it's done, the basment is full and everyone is happy. My place looks a lot bigger when it is empty but it also looks cold and sterile. I am suprised how much the furniture in the warm tones really changed the feel of the place. How much it changed from a box on the 3rd floor to a home when my furniture was there. I especially like that even though people said it could not happen, the large formerly built in buffet survived the trip out and into the basement. It will hopefully get refinished when we find a house to buy and be put in place permanently, but it is beating all odds already. It is such a neat piece of furniture that my great grandparents had and might get to live on in a modern setting someday. If nothing else it is a conversation piece and a historical artifact. It is really only still around because of the generosity of several people helping move it and the movers willing to move it again now.

The Sofa on the other hand is still something I would like to sell. It is oversized with large arm rests which are pretty but not practical. I am sure that it would fit better in someone's house than it does in their basement. And the matching chair can go with it.

But...I am not looking forward to moving it, or anything else again.

Later in the evening Steve and his dad strapped the mattress/inner spring to the top of the SUV and drove that over to our place. His old mattress was like sleeping on a marshmallow. Mine is a lot newer and more supportive. With that in place, I think I had the best night's sleep in a long time.

Fastest Memorial Day Weekend Ever
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
I spent the entire weekend packing up all the contents of my condo. It is odd putting your life in boxes. It is odd trying to figure out how you accumulated this much stuff so quickly? My vintage glassware collecting has gotten a bit out of hand. I am pretty sure the one thing we didn't need anything more of in the registry was glassware. Or plates. Or pots and pans.

And somehow I broke Steve's wash machine. I was washing the bathroom rugs since I've never seen them washed and wonk, I hear a crash from upstairs. I find Steve with his head in the washer finding that we had 2 rubber bands (like bungee cords but thicker) break off the drum. Aparently wash machines are just a big tub hanging on wires with a rotating spindle in the middle and 4 rubber bands keeping it from swinging and hitting the side of the metal box it is in. Steve says he can order these parts and fix it himself, but it looks tricky.

We also moved my large bookcase-entertainment center unit to Steve's loft this weekend. It took one evening to get all the books packed, remove the TV (heavy old tube style!) dis-assemble the ikea madness, carry the TV down 3 flights of stairs and into the car, put the millions of ikea pieces in the car and then drive home and unload it all. The next day it took most of all day to assemble it again (this should be a test for all newlyweds or engaged couples, assemble large Ikea furniture with no instructions and don't kill eachother) and then have Steve clean out his 2 book cases and move them to accomodate mine with the TV in the middle. Then the reassembly process with his and my books (not co-mingled, he aranges by author's last name, I arange by color, plus his are all sci-fi fantasy and my books are all non-fiction) back on the shelves took us to about the 24 hour point for the whole project.  

We also emptied a lot of the closet stuff, more kitchen gadgets and the pantry. I seem to work on things in a random order. Just whatever seems most accomplishable next. When I hit a wall, I change to another room and it leaves most rooms partially packed. We still need more boxes though, that is the biggest hurdle to getting things out of there before June 2 when the movers come to take the big pieces. I still have some magazines-large books, remaining linnens, glassware and random lamps and boxes left to move.

About 80% of the stuff is out  of there already.  And the nice thing about doing this slowly over the last 4 months is that I have had a lot of time to integrate my stuff into Steve's place so we don't have boxes of things stacked everywhere. The only boxes we have in the house right now that we don't know what to do with are the vhs tapes and cds I had in my old place that I never use and don't know what to do with but yet can't just throw away. And the down comforter we can't use because Steve is allergic and the extra silverware set and kitchen utensils that are duplicates of what we have. We are donating a ton of stuff we found we don't really need, hopefully it will go to someone who needs these things.

We also spent time at Steve's parent's place emptying car-loads into their basement and visiting my parents house to have dinner on Memorial Day with Scott and his GF Kelly. They talk really fast and are really cuddly silly. It's a bit odd. And she is from Elburn, so talk of tractors and coach purses is common yet odd. And somewhere in the mix Helio Castronevez won the Indy 500. We didn't even watch it this year. How sad. My brother and I used to worship Indy before we had significant others. On better news though, we are eagerly looking forward to the next season of Top Gear UK which should be starting soon in late June or early July. If nothing else brings my family together, its TopGear.  

On another note, Steve's mom's garden is amazing and I'd really like a garden someday although I am not sure that I could accomplish something on that scale.

Finally!
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
We did get a second offer on the condo yesterday at the last minute and even though they knew there was an offer they were competing against (although they did not know the amount) the offer ended up being exactly the same. So, this makes me think that only the most price consious people are in the market right now since both offers were more than 10K lower than my already much lower than (20K below) market price. When all this adds up, I am going to loose money on this condo. Not in buying price vs selling price, but when you figure in how much money I put into it in the last 7 years plus the buying price. I strongly recommend people not buy unless they intend to live somewhere potentially "forever" and pay it off early, since that is the only way you can make a profit on the investment now. 

And I have to figure out how to sell my remaining stuff that I can't keep, and move the things we can keep within the next 4 weeks??? Just what I need right now! More stuff with deadlines. I know my ulcer is back because of all this happening at once...

So, after we got the paperwork signed we turned to our other task of yesterday evening. Stuffing wedding invitations. We got them assembled and stamped within about an hour and a half but then when I was falling asleep Steve told me that we forgot to stamp the return envelopes before putting them in the invite assembly. Arrghh!

It was about 1 am when he thought of this and we contemplated ripping them apart, ordering more stamps and envelopes and paying the higher postage and then though why not just slip in an additional stamp on its wax paper through the side of the envelope? The envelopes were rectangular flapped with only glue on the bottom so there was about an inch and a half to slip in a stamp with tweezers. I am not sure how all that happened though since I was not awake. I thought we would re-do everything and went back to sleep, Steve fixed this. He is amazing.

So, now I have a billion page webtrends report to do and a deadline to complete it by, so I have to run.

I wonder how many more near missed we will have like that one?

Sold - Sort of
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
Well we did get an offer on Tuesday for my condo. It was 14K below my asking price. We compromised (I really did more of the compromising) and found a verbal agreement price. The thing is, since then there has been no time to really go further. I can't get to the Realtor's office until Friday after work, and she can't make it out to where I live or work during this time either. I hope the potential buyer isn't offended if there is paperwork waiting but this is a seriously crazy busy time for us.

I have a huge report due by tomorrow for a client and I will be working here late tonight and possibly tomorrow night also. We are also working on getting out the wedding invitations by Friday/Saturday also because the postal rates change on Monday. It took one night to print the names on the inner envelopes and one night to print the addresses on the outer envelopes (last night). I was suprised that Steve's color laser printer could print all these, it saved us a fortune. But it is time consuming. I am glad we didn't try and print everything ourselves, that would have completley overwhelmed us.

We improvised a little doing the inner envelope names in the lavender color used on the invite (rather than black) and adding a semi-transparent lavender monogram to the outer envelope. I am always suprised how Steve's and my knowledge comes together to make things work.

He was a master of the mail merge and setting up the printer to find special envelope settings that slow down printing, since the ink was curling off when we did it the regular speed. And I was the one doing the font choosing, font matching, color matching and layout stuff. (no fake embossing or shadowing fonts please! That is so desktop publishing 1990's!) For a while we thought that we could use a graphic from the invite but it didn't work. I think Steve was just curious to see how the magic wand tool worked even though the image wasn't the right size or resolution. Anyway, it's an adventure and hopefully we will get through it all. 

Next we have to start working on updating his place to sell. Watching the home staging shows on HGTV has been interesting. We have a lot of work to do there. The Tv shows seem to do a few things: 
1. Update all the linnens - target modern stuff, solid colors, neutrals for drapes, beds and towels.
2. Remove clutter and all personal items, make it look like a hotel - minmal wall hangings, no pictures of people who live there.
3. Fix things that need repair - mostly superficial things, they don't do places with big problems.
4. Paint all neutrals - white - cream - beige - mocha only.
5. Remove 1/2 the furniture to show the room space, plus people look at and judge your place based on your stuff. Less stuff means less judgement and more looking at the actual rooms.
6. Update light fixtures since new ones can be aquired cheaply and they are somewhat easy to change.

Also, for some reason the cats are fighting again. Zeus & Pogo have sorted out their differences, but Zeus chased Cinnamon away from the water bowl yesterday in an attempt to dominate the kitchen as his territory and Pogo litterally attacked her when she was going to the water bowl last night. I wish they wouldn't pick on their sister since she is already so terrified of Zeus and hides most of the time.

Weekend Logs
Me
[info]theprotagonist5
I am just logging some stuff about the wedding planning process here.  If you're not a fan of wedding stuff you may want to skip it.

This weekend was as crazy as the last few. I had some actual work I needed to do but couldn't even get to.

We strated out by re-aranging the furniture in the bedroom. Its not essential but how much time do we really have until Steve's place is going to go up for sale? I don't know and starting the staging process and updating is probably better done over time than all at once. 

This has become a multi stage process since Target doesn't stock things in more than ones or twos so you end up running all over town for 4 drapes.

Saturday we ended up finally getting to the invitations sort of. We had to make an insert map and hotel info card. Steve decided he wanted to be in charge of this so, I was ok with that.  The invitations came in from wedding paper divas which is cheaper than most stationery places, and they look ok. The cardstock is heavy but somehow bowed out and not completley straight from how it was cut. I am seeing how the price makes a difference on these things. I am glad that the printing is correct and except for a false alarm that we had with my mom calling freaked out that they were printed wrong because the test card on top had bar codes on it, we seem to have completed the ordering process correctly with almost no assistance.

We also got a last minute request to meet his parents at Gino's East for dinner to try the food because they want to have the rehersal dinner somewhere casual. I am not sure why they are making a big deal about trying pizza that is dependably good, but I am just relieved to have the location determined about 3 months after the discussion started. Pizza for a rehersal dinner isn't my style but I really just wanted it booked.

We also had to stop by my parents place on Sunday to drop off their computer that Steve fixed from a virus eating it and discuss the Sunday brunch and the hotel info for relatives and guests they were talking to already. We found that the family only group for the brunch will be more than 60 people. Yikes! That is almost as many as the wedding. I am not sure it was intended to be another big event? I thought those were more for out of town travelers.

There has also been a big bru-ha-ha about the shower. I don't think I am supposed to be involved in that but Steve's mom and my mom aren't really seeing eye to eye on that. I have been called in to mediate. Mostly because my mom wants all kind of fancy and doesn't really have the money to pay for it. Its odd. I am really ok not having a shower at all. We have a lot of stuff already from 2 homes, do we really need more? 

Moving all my stuff over by the car load like we did on sunday again makes me think I have too much stuff and need to purge more than get new things. But everyone says that these are the pots/pans/plates/fancy things you will be using for the rest of your life. So we have a registry and everything. What we really need is to sell both places and figure out where to live.
 
I am also a bit freaked out that I am so behind on some things. I finally read a real simple weddings magazine this week on the train and aparently nothing is real simple. I am behind on things they list to do 3-4 months before and we have 2. So maybe I will finally get Mario Tricoci to book an apointment after 3 emails and 3 phone calls or maybe I will book someone else. Maybe the dressmaker will get back from vacation and be able to fit in my alterations, or maybe I will have to find someone else. It's all these things hanging out there in limbo that drive a girl nuts. I am also in the midst of trying to start to sell furniture on craigslist. And that first wedding dress.

I wish I wasn't in a crazy time at work, but I am there too. And we may loose a large client that I work on, so I may also be out of a job come fall. I wish things could calm down. I really need to concentrate on work and all this wedding/moving/home stuff is taking its toll. I think I know what people mean when they realize they had so much freedom and time when they were single. Life was just so much simpler that way.

But Zeus is sitting on my desk and that makes me happy.

Weekend Recap
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Just a post for the logbooks. This weekend was busy and as always we can't get it all done.

Friday night we ended up just getting pizza and trying to corrall the house into some order.

We also chatted with Steve's mom and decided that because of a lack of any other affordable restaurants we will have the rehersal dinner at Ginos East. I know, like a kids pizza party. His family is paying though so what can I say? 

Saturday AM I met with the person who runs the BackGarage Blog and she was way cool.

Saturday Afternoon I went to my folks house just to drive my brother's car to his house since the shop that fixed it after the crash delivered it to my parents house and Scott was still loopy from his wisdom teeth being removed. Then my parents picked me up later to bring me back to my car. My mom could have easily done this but she is invoking a "can't drive more than 2-3 miles from the house" rule. It pisses me off because she used to drive everywhere and now she can't take I-55 to Rt 30 or 290 to Harlem or even 75th to Naper to Ogden. She is scared of nothing, it's her way of giving up or something, she isn't even 70 yet. I hate reinforcing the behavior by driving her places, I don't have time to be a chaufer also. Steve's parents don't have these issues.

Anyway, saw Scott, he is doing well after the wisdom teeth removed. His cats got big and are really cute.

Then I went home to find Steve with his car in pieces. We went to Stir Carzy for dinner and then found that it was time for bed.

Sunday AM I went to A Joyful Occassion in Naperville and bought another wedding dress and veil. This one actually fits correctly and is more flattering since it involves a corset. (and not that expensive) I will sell the first one either on ebay or craigslist. Steve's mom and my mom were there to see it so we don't have any criticisms at the last moment when nothing can be changed. Yes my dad had to drive my mom out there and sat in the car reading the paper the whole time. Steve came also, he thought it worked well also. Luckilly I can keep my white shoes to use with this new ivory dress. The moms talked me into buying the sample dress and now we just have to get it hemmed.

With the dress in the car on the way home we picked up brake calipers at Auto parts store for Steve's car.

Sunday afternoon Steve and I crashed. I am not sure why I can't get decent sleep these days, waking up all the time means we nap like seniors. Weird.

Sunday evening Steve put the new calipers on his car. That whole brake line fluid thing is messy and corrosive.

We also tried to do 3 loads of laundry and 2 loads of dishes.

I got to chat with Amy S for a while, good to catch up. Must call Janice soon too.

We are also trying this thing with the cats where we play with them for 15 min a few times a day to get the energy out and they won't pick on eachother. Seems to be helping, but not great for a packed schedule. It was a suggestion from the book "Cat vs Cat"

Then at like 10 pm I got to my emails and took until 1 am to get the inbox cleaned out.

We got the official first bill for the reception. And the first big payment is due. Gulp.

I never even got a chance to work on the wedding web site nor any of the blogs. Poo. The house is also in desperate need of some vacuuming and there is still more yet to be moved from my Condo to Steve's place. Maybe next weekend? Oh yea, we will be addressing and stuffing invitations next weekend. Fun!

Manual Updates in Chicagoland
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I feel like nothing in my life is automated right now. All new all the time. Some excerpts for the log books:

I am at the point where I am at Steve's place pretty permanently now so its time to turn off the phone/internet at the condo and "gasp" I have to loose my old ameritech email address I have had since 1997. Sad. I don't use it so much, but I run a lot of newsletters there that have to be changed over now and I have to make sure I don't loose anything particularly good in the files or loose any contacts that may still use that old address. If you're reading this wondering how to contact me in the future, please use my yahoo.com address. It will be a few weeks before I have time to filter through all those emails though and get away from that monthly $75 bill. We also had to get my parents some new dial-up internet last night since they use my free DSL backup dial up plan that will be going away. And OMG! I can't believe I surfed the internet like that in 1997. Holy monkeys is that slow!

My brother has a girlfriend again and I'm not totally wild about her. Odd, I usually like his GFs, they're always cute and nice but there is something odd about this one. I am not sure what it is yet. I get a back country, rural, city hating kind of vibe from her. And in the current Obama democratic reform metropolis era we're in, I'm not sure why she thinks it's ok to make fun of other ethnic backgrounds that she goes to college with. Yes, she's in college, I think she's 23 and Scott is 31. Big age diff, but he doesn't seem to care. She's definitley naieve about a lot, including her financial expectations of the world (who Coach handbag collection as a student?) and she uses a whole language of words I don't understand (dirty rice?, is that rural speak or youngspeak?) but as per usual it's not my place to mention anything. I do want my brother to be happy, and he seems like he is, but I guess I just thought of him with a classier more worldly girl. Sigh...

My commute time has doubled with the metra, craptastic. I used to like the simplicity of walking out my door and to the train whenever I was ready and now I rush through everything at an anxious pace to get out the door at 7:30 am for an 8 am train and a 8:35 bus to get to work by 9 am. On the way home it gets better. The 121 only runs at rush hour, so if client rush work comes in at 5pm I get stuck taking the 151 or 157 busses which can take an hour to get to union station from michigan ave. Then IF you get there at the time of an express it's a 30 min train ride to the burbs, if not its a regular train 1 hour trip and another 20-30 min drive home from the station. Steve bears the brunt of this also being early to work after dropping me off and staying late every day until I call and say I will be at the train station. I get to work from home on Fridays, but since they laid off our work from home analyst here last week and gave out all his accounts to the 4 remaining ones, I am not sure doing that is a positive for my career. It's hard to stay in touch with management from home.

Living together is a challenge sometimes with commuication. Not a seriously diffcult one but here's an example. We have needed to clean Steve's garage since I met him. He had a 2 car garage with 1 car for 12 years so the old tires, old exaust pipes, mufflers, brakes, yard equipment, oil change equipment and a whole bunch of random garbage crept up. We smooshed it a bit to fit in my car a while ago but this weekend we finally did something about it. The thing was "clean the garage" meant 2 totally different things to both of us. I meant, take everthing out, put it on the driveway, put it back in better order and throw out stuff you don't want to put back in. He meant to take everything out, wash the floors and just put everything back somewhere. Ugh. We eventually did get everything washed and strategically placed and now have room to walk around the cars and got his old desk out of the loft used as a makeshift workbench.

Wedding planning is plugging along. I just have to say though I neevr though I would be spending $4K on flowers. Yes, it is exorbitant, yes I tried to cut back the quote, but we have a fancy shmancy florist that is actually very good and Steve's mom insisted on not cutting back and paying for things. I feel a bit guilty because its double what we budgeted for and somehow it is going to come up later that she paid all that for the flowers at our wedding. Especially if Steve's brother gets married and his GF wants flowers worth half that. I am wating for this to somehow backfire, but I couldn't keep pushing to pay for it myself when she called the florist and managed things from there. I am also alarmed that our small budget wedding is now near 23K in total overall cost. I'm not writing that to brag, I am writing it out of embarassment. We might have 75 people max but the cost of everything from the reception to the rehersal dinner to the brunch the day after has been quoted and the the total is alarming. I want people to be happy when they come to the wedding, but I also know they won't remember any of it a year after it happens. We're committed to all the decisions we've made, but I feel bad that my 15K goal went out the window despite a few good deals like buying a $200 dress and Steve finding a great deal on a very nice artcarved wedding band at James & Williams.

My blogging has lagged latley because we're a bit swamped at work. I have more clients now that the work at home analyst has been laid off and next month is big hell quarterly report month with the largest client. I am not sure how everything is going to get done at home and with the wedding when I am most likley going to be working looong hours. It's interesting trying to find time to get wedding stuff done, move my stuff to Steve's one car load at a time, have an overloaded workload and try and fix up Steve's place to eventually sell. Oh yea, and we're supposed to have *more* time together since we live together now. Sigh... I think eventually things will calm down but not for a while.

And lastly the other thing squarley on my mind latley is trying to loose weight before the wedding. Initially I did when we got engaged and I bought a dress that just *barely* fit me because I thought I would loose more weight before the wedding. Hmmm. That hasn't happened. I'm still about the same and skipping snacks or cutting back on calories is impossible when I am stressed out at work. I am beginning to get worried more and more about this because I only have 3 months left. While technically it is possible to loose another 10 lbs by then, I would be happy with 5. I just don't know where/when/how this is going to be possible.


Wisdom Teeth Removed
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Getting my wisdom teeth removed has been a very different experience from what I expected and from the fearful warnings I got from friends and coworkers. The weirdest part was how fast I was out with the anesthesia having never had it before. I saw one wavy blur of celing and then was waking up 2 hours and minus 4 teeth later. Initially I was not in any pain after the surgery either, just stiff and blurry. After about a 1/2 hour they let Steve take me home and I got a glimpse of my face in the hallway mirror. Big chipmunk cheeks and dried blood all over my teeth. Yuck. I was able to mumble a bit but the local anesthetic was still working pretty seriously so I didn't have much control there. I resorted to miming writing on the wall to communicate with steve because air writing wasn't working.

After I got home it was kind of anti climactic for a while. Steve had a conference call to make and I was just glad to be home in one piece. I tried to nap on the couch and woke up 2 hours later to him saying I had to take out the gauze again and change it. Well I was sorry I did, it was painful since I think it clotted around the gauze and it also freaked me out that my entire right side of my face, lip, chin and tounge were still numb. By that time the pain meds were needed and eating beforehand was a necessity and that was tough considering I could barely open my mouth. After that I just went to sleep for a while. I ended up getting up later and with the anti-inflamitories and antibiotics I was able to listen in on a conference call for work and not feel like total crap.

Once we figured out the way to make milkshakes that didn't suck in the blender things fell into a routine. Ice cream + jewel frozen strawberries in a syrup like sauce + milk makes a pretty good milkshake and I have been eating more ice cream this week than I probably have in the last 5 years. Also the magic bullet was a goofy gift at christmas but is mainly how I make things edible right now. Don't underestimate the appeal of pureed food (oatmeal, mikshakes, soup, or non solids like yogurt & pudding) when you can't open your mouth all the way. So, I really haven't been in any real pain since Thursday and the only annoying thing left is that they kind of stiched my gums together with part of my cheek or something because I still can't open my mouth very far. It just won't open. The chipmunk cheeks went away by day 2 and this salt water rinse thing is kinda gross. But you get through it and as long as I can find pureed food, I'm fine.

The good news is that Steve and I seem to do ok together like this. I've been here since last weekend with Zeus. He doesn't seem to mind my extra clutter nor the times I just dissapear to go blog or work on stuff. He watches far more TV than I do and has a much simpler palate. (eating the same thing every day is ok) I am not suprised that we seem to be happily dividing and conquering chores and having a good time being together but it is a good feeling to know your hunch was right.

Glowing Cities Under a Nighttime Sky
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Totally unique video of night lights while flying. Amazing effects. Check it out.

kolaky cookies macro
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kolaky cookies macro
Originally uploaded by strz2009
a whole boatload of new photos uploaded to flickr today, about 4 pages worth.

Before & After: WhiteHouse.gov Change
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Wow, change has come to the white house web site.

It is the first usability redesign it has had in probably 8 years.

I think the white house web site will be much more integral to how the white house communicates with the citizens now that Obama's people are going to maintain it and they like the whole conversation with the citizens idea.

Charts - Awesome and Helpful
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Charts
Originally uploaded by labnol
A chart to figure out what kind of chart or graph you need. Brilliant.

Charles James “Butterfly” Ball Gown 1954
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The Chicago History Museum has an amazing historical fashion exhibit on coture dresses from the last 120 or so years. I have not been over to see it in person yet, but from viewing the photos on Flickr, it looks pretty awesome.

What our pets do while we are at work all day
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Even though this isn't a full day I was suprised how much the dog is on the couch asleep. I am guessing Zeus has at least that much nap time considering he is a cat. It would be neat to capture something like this but I am not sure my elph camera has anything near this capacity.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all y'all
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to all y'all
Originally uploaded by girlhula
I am just getting in from 2 days of family get togethers and food. I hope you had a good holiday too.

2009 Predictions
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I know that about this time people start posting resolutions for the next year but what I am more interested in is what will actually happen in the new year. Because I am an analyst I always want to try my hand at predicting things too, and see why things happen the way they do. It shouldn't be a suprise with my usual cheery demeanor that I am not that possitive about the next year. I would love to be wrong about some of these predictions and somehow I feel like I am preparing for the worst case scenario. Which is what a lot of people feel like with the economy right now. Here are some of my predictions for 2009: 

1. The economy will still stink. I know, big suprise there. It is still spiraling downward and I don't see a logical turnarount point or catalyst/reason for growth of any kind yet. I am pretty sure unemployment will go a lot higher, to maybe 7% or 8% because companies are still laying off in the thousands and there is no stabilization yet with many more companies on the verge of collapse.

2. Well the advertising business doesn't look hopeful either in 2009 considering that people typically don't buy much of what we sell in a recession. I have hope for my company but I can't expect them to be superhuman when it comes to the economy. I may very well be out of a job later in the year and most of my colleagues may be also. The job market sux for my skill set right now. I am not looking forward to this.

3. People will be patient with Barack Obama. As long as he keeps it real with us citizens, we will be patient to see how and when he can help lead us out of this mess. (even though it isn't his reponsibility nor technically within his power to do so, if he had a magic wand he would have used it already) 

4. My 401K will shrink even further. I find it more sad than humorous that my 401K has remained at the same value all year even though I contribute 6% of my pre-tax income towards it and my company matches 3%. Yeesh. I think more of the same in 2009. I also think people should beware of the "buy mutual funds and stocks cheap" and "dollar cost averaging" mentality out there now. Some of these companies and industries don't have the innovation necessary for reviving themselves when this recession ends and will never come back. Be careful you aren't buying a dud fund/company that won't recover later. I know some people who still haven't recovered their losses from the last recession (2001) yet and this year's crash just made things worse. If you don't personally believe in what they sell/do/create don't buy it.

5. My place won't sell until summer and then it will at significantly less cash. I am predicting maybe in June for 15K less than it is listed for? Then predictably I will be living in Warrenville.

6. Despite all this doom and gloom Steve and I will be pretty happy. We are simple people so we don't require the fancy things in life. As long as we are together we will be fine, even if there is a crap economy surrounding us and our wedding. It sure is nice having cash on hand to be able to pay for it. 

7.  CWF and CWB will continue to be great hobbies, although I need to do more posts as well as look at additional resources for writing at some point. I can't write as well as a pro and I don't have the resources to have the word on the street everywhere. I think I want to keep growing them a bit but as always am limited by time and resources. If you know someone who needs extra cash and would like to write about local entertainment and events let me know.

8. I think deflation will happen and I think it is needed. Businesses are scared of it but it wouldn't be necessary if companies would have kept prices in a reasonable range to begin with. I certainly hope this means that the consumer awareness and cost consiousness that has been happening continues. People were way too complacent about this for too long. (I was too) 

9. I will have my wisdom teeth taken out. Well this is more a need than a prediction. I am not wild about it but they tell me that you are out cold the whole time so it is probably the easiest way to deal with some wisdom teeth problems I have.

What about you? Any predictions for the new year?

Clarified Networks Kaminsky DNS repair visualisation
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I am not sure what a DNS repair is, but I find it interesting to visualize the security updates that happen worldwide all the time. And seem to follow the sun across the globe.

Facebook photos
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Facebook photos
Originally uploaded by ubermore
Amazing isn't it? They are more than a social site, they are a photo hosting and archive too.

Holiday Simplicity
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ポインセチア
Originally uploaded by K.masao
Happy Christmas Holidays. I wish everyone a simpler holiday this season. Less about spendy gifts and more about being together with friends and family.

Soical Network Fragmentation
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sehr interessant.

Truth in Advertising
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Oh how funny and true...

US Halloween 2008
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US Halloween 2008
Originally uploaded by strzelecki1
Us at halloween, a bit belated, but better late than never. LOL meets heavy metal guy.

Time to Save
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Time to Save
Originally uploaded by Thomas Hawk
This is so timely right now.

The Road Ahead
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The Road Ahead
Originally uploaded by Saskya
The fall folliage colors are gone here in Chicago now but this is what it looked like here about a month ago. I miss the above 50 degree temperatures too. My wool coat isn't cutting it right now. I need to go find my down parka before it goes below 20 degrees. Happy end of fall and beginning of winter.

Pigeon Point Lighthouse Picture Lake
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Pigeon Point Lighthouse
Originally uploaded by PhotoBud
I thought this was an amazing photo. I really like this time of day right after the sun sets anyway and this shining light makes it an even more dramatic photo. So many great photos on Flickr... so little time...

Crazy Busy Life
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All of those of you with kids are probably laughing that I think my life is crazy right now. You probably still win the craziness schedule contest but compared to my simple single life this is a lot going on. Some summary below: 

This whole sell the condo thing is finally on the move. We met with a realtor that Steve knows through a business assn he works with last Tuesday and found out a lot of great detailed information about the market and the sales and terms that have been happening latley. I appreciated her research and we found out what we needed to do to polish up my place for listing. We set to work and after about 6 rubbermaid storage containers and 6 pieces of small furniture removed as well as a thorough cleaning and ouch up paint we took photos of the condo yesterday and signed all the required paperwork. The listing should be up soon but I really don't think we are going to get any lookers before the holidays. Hopefully it will sell in the spring but maybe we can get lucky.

I found a dress on Sunday at Priscilla of Boston. You may or may not know that I worked there on Saturdays as a second job back in 2001 while saving up money for my condo down payment. Boy has it changed since then. They never used to have sales or other brands and now they are a store with big rolling racks of dresses everywhere and a zoo of customers to boot. I got a Watters & Watters strapless sample dress that looked like it had never been worn for 85% off. Weird and lucky I know, but I managed to get it out of there before they changed their mind about the price. Now I just have to get it cleaned and hemmed and bustled closer to the wear date.

Classes are crazy. I don't think you are supposed to study just before class and still pass this class, but with all this going on that is what is happening these days. Suprisingly I am still doing ok. Maybe because I use math so much for work now.

Halloween was nuts too. We went to a party that Steve's friends had. I was an LOL cat and Steve was a heavy metal guy with a ridiculous wig. Everyone thought that was perfect for him.

I talked to florists yesterday and think red is the way to go, although I really like the yellow roses with the red edges. That may be tacky and too wild but something about gradients on flowers always gets me. More floral appointments this weekend to see what others come up with.

I did a reconnaissance mission at Macys yesterday too and found that Martha Stewart has taken over the store. That and no one registers for her stuff because it is not great quality. It makes it hard to register there since over 1/2 of all the house and home related departments are this cheap Macy's house brand with Martha's lisenced name on them. Pickins are slim and I didn't find much that wasn't gaudy or super modern. (same for cheap stuff vs wicked expensive)  I wish there was more middle ground.

I got my hair cut and it's way short. eep. Above my shoulders always freaks me out a bit and then it grows back in quickly and I forget.

Work is crazy and I have a lot to get done, so I shouldn't be posting this. I don't know how your companies are all weathering the recession, but ours has had some cutbacks but my department is still crazy busy. 

Obamapalooza Obamamania Obamaphenon All Over the World
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It has been one heck of a night!

recession marketing investments
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Interesting...

sushi platter display
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sushi platter display
Originally uploaded by strzelecki1
Giant platter of sushi...

Shimmer
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Shimmer
Originally uploaded by 1bluecanoe
Welcome to fall.

egg chairs
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egg chairs
Originally uploaded by Spring Globe
wow, color dramatic... wouldn't really fit in my home though...

new kitchen lights
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new kitchen lights
Originally uploaded by strzelecki1
Don't lights (and cupcakes) make the whole place look better? Know anyone who needs a condo in OP?

LOL cat this
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LOL cat this
Originally uploaded by strzelecki1
Zeus with his cat entertainment...birds eating seed we put on the windowsill.

slice 'n' dice
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slice 'n' dice
Originally uploaded by raspberrytart
Windmills, they're the new black.

Wellie season
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Wellie season
Originally uploaded by Chez Larsson
Wellies are available here now too.

It's almost fall.

Catching up...
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I have been reading some posts here today and trying to catch up on what is happening with everyone. It seems like everyone is located pretty far away now and it is almost hard to remember when we were all in the same city and (most of my friends here) were dancing swing at various places like rumors, willowbrook ballroom and fizz every week. Although I am not buying any houses, changing jobs, having babies or having any other drama in my life right now I should probably write something to sum up life latley. 

Steve and I are doing well. He is still as awesome as ever. I think he and I are probably as compatible as you can be and I think we both hope we are going down the same direction path type thing. We think we know where it will end up but not to jinx anything we will just wait and see. I think that might be my only small frustration, that I am ready to jump into the lets make it official phase and he is not quite yet. He thinks he will but it's just a bit fast to know forever type things when you haven't had a lot of experiences to compare this to nor maybe enough time to date and be super super sure. (it's been 11 months) I guess people's emotions move at different paces even if they are both very much in love. At least I feel good that we are happy together, we never really fight and we seem to have the same aspirations and goals in life. After all the ups and downs I have had in my dating life I feel lucky to have found him and that our relationship has grown into something serious like this and that it makes us both happy.

Otherwise work is ok allbeit a bit boring at times since things can be repetitive but hopefully the company and product will be stable for a while considering that there are no web marketing jobs out there right now, not even with my varied web marketing background. I am also trying to continue gathering more knowledge and am in a Statistics class on Thursday nights at Triton (community) college. I know it's hard to remember college but back then I studied education and had no purpose for a stats class. So, even though I know a lot of the concepts from every day use, I thought going back and taking the class would be helpful for now and for later if I needed it as a pre-requisite.

I am also happy that ChicagoWeekendFun.com is continuing to grow. Some days it is one step forward and two steps back but month over month I usually see growth. I just have to find time in addition to everything else going on to do research and post. I hope it continues to grow and be an interesting side project for a while, I really enjoy being in charge of my own site after working for a site and it is really exciting to see what happens new every day and figure it all out. These new blog ad networks have also made it worth just about anyone's while to start a site with no minimums as far as impressions or clicks go. This is really revolutionary in the online ad world. Some will drop out though, I have noticed a big drop in inventory latley, I hope a few good ones survive.

In other news Zeus is still here being as cute and lovey dovey as an 18 lb cat can be. He enjoys many belly-rubs and mornings watching the birds outside. It has been a year now since I adopted him and I really think he has taken all that time to adjust to the change in living quarters and having me as an owner. He is much more relaxed and social now than he was a year ago at this time.

Hmm...not much else happening really. I joke that Steve and I are the most consistent people in the world. Nothing super interesting or dramatic ever really happens to us. But then again, we kinda like being boring. We are going to go see "Turn of the Century" at the Goodman on the 24th (with Jeff Daniels in it of all people) and Robin Williams Standup Comedy at the Chicago Theater on the 27th. (my Bday, ack! 33) Of course I will blog about both on CWF. We also will be heading out to his folks lake house in Indiana one last weekend to put the boat away for the winter soon. (did I mention I have 3 gallon ziploc bags of Indiana picked bluberries in my freezer?) Otherwise, his mom continues to try and teach me to cook as we have the opportunity, and my parents continue to let me make a mess of their kitchen cooking on Sundays when Steve, Scott and I come over to visit. Somehow cooking and working can't happen on the same days though...too much stress there. (that is why I avoided it for so long!!)

In other people's news, Lisa D had her second baby Rachel and Janice is pregnant with her second child due in February. I can't wait to see all the holiday cards this year. Steve and I should do one with all 3 cats just so we don't feel left out. I have posted a few pix on here of Amy and DJ's baby Zoe and she is doing well at 6 months also. It's just baby crazy right now... well not with me specifically...

Anyway, I hope that is a telling update and that everyone else is having a fun fall and  that things are going well.


Airplaines and other zoomy things
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I just wanted to post that it is the Chicago Air and Water (but no one really watches the water part) show time again and the F-18s in the Blue angels are gaving fun buzzing the buildings on the lakefront. They are starting things off early this year with a show at 3pm on Friday with Bill Murray parachuting out of a plane with a skydiving team. So I guess the amount of work done in our office will be low today. 

That is ok I am having an issue with focusing on stuff here anyway. Mainly it happens on days when I get to see Steve but then I feel bad that he is lacking focus at work too (and he owns his own business) and his work is more crucual than mine. That does tell you though that things are going well in the relationship department and we are very happy together although not happy about all the driving inbetween our places. Maybe one day we will get crazy and live together or something, but for now Steve spends a lot of time driving. 

It's my turn to go out there this weekend, so poor Zeus (my cat) will be alone for a few days. Other than that we have enjoyed Steve's family lake house in Indiana and are feasting on the 10 lbs of fresh picked blueberries we bought and froze for the year. I am not sure that with all I have given out to people and eaten they will last more than a month or 2. I am also always plugging along at the chicago blog when I get time or an idea to write about. It has taken off with some good traffic and numbers coming in. Bookmark or add it to your feeds if you want to read the updates.

Eddie Izzard Stripped Show Review - Chicago Theater - Friday May 16, 2008
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This review will make more sense if you read the Thursday night review first.

The other times I have seen Eddie Izzard live and seen him after the show in person I have been completely giddy and in a hurry to archive the feeling of that moment before it passes. I did not have that happen this time at the Stripped show. I am not sure if the change was from him or me, or possibly both, but it wasn’t quite the same.

 

First off, I am different regarding my understanding of comedy now that I did 2 years of Second City’s Training Center improv programs. I am not an expert in it, but I have a lot more fun in conversations with improv. Also, I am in a very different place with comedy now that I am in a solid relationship and good job now, and doing improv and comedy for fun pale in importance when compared to those more concrete aspects of my life. Since comedy/improv are not career options for me, it seems less important and less a reason to agonize over all the details for hours. I still occasionally feel the urge to get up and play on a stage, or launch into a character in a conversation, but it isn’t the “I’m looking for direction in my life” kind of experimentation it once was and these shows are less a look at a life I would like to lead and more a fun entertaining night out.

 

That said, my take on Eddie Izzard and Stripped is different too. He is less of a “god-like comedy being” and more of a hard working business man who has some very funny things to say. I have the ultimate respect for him, but I no longer get giddy at the sight of him and his show. Maybe this is also because I have seen shows live before. I do intend to be a loyal fan for a long time since he has had a profound impact on my life and opened the door to a new way of thinking about the idiosyncrasies of life and embracing improv and comedy as a personality characteristic.

 

Honestly before the show I spent more time making fun of the naked guy in a chariot painted on the ceiling above the stage and singing along in improv to the classical music than thinking about Eddie Izzard. What on earth are all those naked people on the ceiling of the Chicago Theater about? And Steve humored me by laughing at my improvised singing.

 

Eddie Izzard entered with the usual fanfare and light show that serves him well and he seemed less stiff and abrupt this time around while starting the show. He must have seen the Chicago River at some point, because he mentioned it in the opening and it was a great deal funnier than the night before. 

He launched into many of the same ideas as on Thursday but he did not phrase them the same or use the same details. Eddie must enjoy seeing what changes work and don’t and everything was about 20% funnier and 40% different on Friday night. He was in the groove more. Less people heckled him. He moved quicker through the material (1 hr 30 min vs. 1 hr 45 min) and jumped quicker from subject to subject. I like the disjointedness of jumping around with non-sequiturs. I also liked the pace speeded up and less of the wandering details and more quick “concept and go” pace.

 

Steve said on Thursday he thought the show was a bit “preachy” and it probably is. It actually has moments when he introduces a segment by explaining his ideology for several minutes on it first and then acting it out. The acting it out is funny, why the ideological explanation first? Why not let people come to their own conclusion from the comedy rather than telling them all the theories? I think we can handle the "no-god" idea, it’s not that controversial. I don’t remember him having to explain as much about what he was doing and why in past shows.

 

That said everything was quicker, punchier and moved along faster. Even the encore was funny this time. On Thursday it left me with a feeling of “what was that?” and on Friday he illustrated the point of the funny more than wandering about his ideas and explanations. I still think the mix of ideology & comedy was 80/20 in past shows with comedy being the lion’s share.

 

I don’t want to give the impression that these shows were not funny because they were! I just didn’t write down every joke and story to re-tell online. It would be rude to give the show away to the next 15 cities on the tour and a bit immature also. I will say that badgers, giraffes and ducks return and many other funny concepts he has visited before but rolled around in a new way. Languages and cultures and a lot of Roman and hunter-gatherer history come in as well. And who could forget the  million ways to disprove religion? He has a lot of good points I believe in, but not all of them are completely funny.

 

If you are a dedicated and loyal Eddie Izzard fan, don’t miss this tour and an opportunity to see him rekindle some of the magic that was lost in the Sexie tour. It is never a bad way to spend an evening. If you don’t know who Eddie Izzard is, you probably won’t like this tour so much and will leave a bit confused on whether it was a funny university lecture or a comedy show.

 

On Friday Eddie also came out the stage door on the side of the theater to chat with the waiting fans for a few minutes and answer questions rather than sign autographs. (The problem is that they clearly label the door) It seemed that he was more relaxed and less tired this time and there were about double the people that there were on Thursday night. (200+) I still think he is generous to do this with his time and even though it makes his work day longer, it is probably one of the strongest marketing techniques out there. Everyone who got to ask a question got an honest and direct reply looking you straight in the eye for a minute or two and when I got my answer to my hair-brained question I was shaking. (Why did I ask if he would ever do TopGear again if I knew he gets motion sickness? Duh!) How can you not love this man and tell everyone you know about his work when he takes time out to be genuine like this?

 

Eddie was wearing eyeliner on top and bottom of his eyelids on Friday rather than just the lids on Thursday. I can see more guys doing this look in the future since it doesn’t really look like makeup, it just looks like you have more prominent eyes. And it looks like a rock and roll type style. Steve isn't sold on wearing it yet though.

One interesting question was a thank you from a group of opera singers for doing that bit about opera in the show. Eddie had the guts to do a bit of fact checking on the spot and ask if people in Italy and Germany really did understand the operas or not and they said they do rather than his bit that they don’t. So, maybe that will get integrated into the show? I think it is cool to have an interaction with fans and information like that and let the show form with feedback in a web 2.0 way. No one can replace Eddie’s mind, timing, or cleverness but feedback ala wikipedia and fact checking can only strengthen the comedy and show content.

 

I am also always impressed by Eddie Izzard’s fans. They are always very respectful well mannered polite folks that never do anything crazy or out of hand. They were nearly on top of him in the alley because of the tight space, and Eddie returned the favor with respect by not acting at all scared that someone was going to overstep a boundary in any way. He did have 3 very big bodyguards standing behind him, but for a Hollywood star guy, he had a great populace feel to the chat and his openness in answering questions even though we weren’t press or famous people.

 

After about 20 minutes and lots of interesting questions he called it a night and said they were going out. I am glad they got to go out on the town and enjoy some of what Chicago had to offer. I also hope Eddie Izzard and his crew all enjoyed some big thick Chicago steaks and great drinks that evening, since they did a great job with the tour and deserve a fun night to celebrate it. 

Also, I would like to thank Steve for going with me to these shows TWICE and at hopefully enjoying them. I am happy that my appreciation of Eddie hasn't freaked him out and now Steve has seen the action in person and likes to quote Eddie too. Actually, Steve gets a kick out of the fact that Eddie likes to use the name Steve in his bits. We joke that Steve is really an invisible co-star in the show that no one knows about, and he shares credit with the 5 million other Steves out there.


Eddie Izzard Stripped - Standup Show Review Chicago Theater - Thursday May 15, 2008
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The Eddie Izzard Stripped show was packed on Thursday night, and started about 10 minutes after 8 due to people still trickling in late. They were staunch about no cameras and even checked purses and handbags at the door of the chicago theater to make sure no one had a camera with them. If you did it got confiscated at the request of the artist. (a bit harsh maybe?) This is most likely because it’s early in the tour and things haven’t quite gelled yet. Chicago was only the 4th or 5th city on the tour so spoiling it for people later through the cunning use of digital devices isn’t really fair. Anyway, mine wasn’t in my purse so they didn’t have a problem with me. I also respected the camera ban and did not take any inside the theater.

 

Eddie had a very traditional bunch of songs playing beforehand like pomp and circumstance and fancy opera stuff. I assume he liked the history about them or something because they wouldn’t be expected choices for before a standup comedy show. When he was going to come on stage the lights dimmed and a short lights show ala Glorious happened with some hip yet mature instrumental music and then voila the lights pivoted to the stage and there he was. If you have a good trick like this you should re-use it and bringing back the Glorious-esque opening was a good move.

 

The audience was enthusiastic and cheered wildly when he walked on stage with his trademark chin up swagger, yet they did not give him a standing ovation and they quieted down relatively quickly when he started talking. It is nice that Eddie tries to localize his opening to talk a little about the city he is in, because we know these tours go on forever and everything looks the same from on stage. The audience likes that you actually know where they are and something about their city. He did have some weak facts though about the windy city being a name from politicians being long winded and not because of the wind. But it’s still windy here anyway. Not so funny. He could have had just about anything and he chose that? But then again maybe he hasn’t had a chance to walk around and see the city yet, taste the steak and pizza and smell the pollution and traffic. 

 

The stage is a simpler backdrop and design than in the past but still a bit puzzling. Really he doesn’t need anything behind him at all, because he sets the stage, themes and mood with his comedy, not with sets. There were large beige fabric panels hanging with rock patterns and cave painting hieroglyphics on them. We thought maybe he was going to do something from “Defending the Caveman” perhaps? And on the top left quartile of this fabric backdrop was a rectangle cut out that was a digital screen that seemed to have nothing to do with the performance itself. It looked like a hanging flat screen TV with different images on it that changed from an ocean behind 2 palm trees to a human’s eye which changed colors behind two bars to a moon rising and setting behind these 2 bars. What does that mean?

 

His comedic bits start at the beginning of time and try and get somewhat bouncing around through major points of civilization’s history. Yet there was no story or relevance rooted in his life or ours in the telling. He does hint at the US not allowing its citizens to travel anymore because we start too many wars by pissing over the fence but doesn’t make a strong sociopolitical argument in the show. He also points out (rather weakly because someone most likely told him there are Catholics in the audience) that there is no god and all the historical evidence backs this up.

 

If anything is the basis for the content of the show, "disproving religion with history" is it. But why is that earth shattering? We have all known that for years. In fact I don’t think that anyone could be a fan of Eddie Izzard without that as a given. He mentioned later that he had been back to Yemen (where he was born) recently and that it had a profound impact on him. Maybe seeing the cradle of civilization and interacting with many different religions and cultures was what prompted this thought process? Maybe just late night TV? Why not mention some origins of thought in the beginning to justify all this re-examination and make it relatable? Not all of us watch the history channel every day and naturally have these inclinations.

 

I have a theory that the further you go back in history, the less people care about it and the harder it is for them to relate to. Personally I used to have a before 1900 – I don’t care policy. I realize now this was short sighted, but how much is really relevant to my daily life from before the industrial revolution?

 

I think what Eddie is getting at as a point or theme in the show is “How did we get here?” How did we-him-me-us-you-and-them all end up here, right now, doing what we are doing, thinking, believing and living as we are? And what is funny/weird about it? What beliefs do we have that are completely illogical, bizarre and disproved by science and history? What unthinkable things have changed effortlessly because of the new technology available now? Where the hell are we going? 

 

Later he does return to his talking animals and surrealist sound effects that he likes to do with the microphone. He enjoys pointing out it’s only a mime when people go ewww when he makes a particularly gross skin ripping sound. (at least these are faster than the 15 minute wind horseback riding wind sound from Sexie) He also has fun with some hecklers and looks like he almost looses his train of thought when they interrupt him. He also has less energy and a less manic pace at which he moves these days. Maybe that is from the contrast of doing drama work, maybe he was tired for all this travel or maybe this isn’t as fun 20 years later?

 

I also heard that he uses his iPhone to look up things he doesn’t know about while on stage performing. And since I got no signal on my phone in the theater I didn’t know if he would be able to pull this off. He did use the iPhone but not to look something new up, but to look up the exact wording to prove a point on a definition. This worked either because they came prepared with their own cell tower or because he had archived the page in the phone just in case. Anyway, I did look the term up he used in the show and it was exactly what he said it was, so he wasn’t ad-libbing that part.

 

I still had 3 or 4 other spontaneous laugh out loud moments and the audience generally chuckled throughout the entire show. My eyes were literally blurry because I need glasses and I only saw that devilish grin of I’m having fun up here maybe once or twice from the 15th row.

 

Yet, I got the feeling that although the Thursdy night audience was very polite and so was he, it wasn’t a totally “on” performance. Chicago loves Eddie Izzard and wants to see him more often. Eddie Izzard loves a 3,000 seat sold out theater even if it is in the middle of America. So, we were both mutually pleased but not wowed. He not with us, and us not with him. So, we will see if the funny gets funnier tomorrow at the second show.

 

After the show I found the group of addicted Eddie fans behind the theater in the alley patiently waiting to meet him as the garbage truck picked up the trash. There was a ginormous bodyguard guy by the door of the theater and we sensed that if we waited something would eventually happen. And it did. The bodyguard told everyone to come in a semicircle and they couldn’t follow directions fast enough. Then Eddie came out and did a Q&A with the 100 or so of us there waiting to see him. It was nice because he admitted he didn’t have time to meet and autograph things for everyone, but he could talk for 15 minutes and answer questions. As always, you think he is taller until you see him in person and realize not only is he a regular guy in eyeliner, he isn’t a million feet tall either. These are a summary and paraphrasing of some of the Questions and Answers Eddie Izzard gave from standing up on a concrete parking divider.

 

Q: Where were you born and educated?

 

A: Born in Yemen, then moved to Northern Ireland and then to Wales and then to Bexhill. He mentions college in Sheffield and another school also.

 

Q: Which football team are you routing for?

 

A: Either, Crystal Palace will level them all. Too much money in these teams, it’s not such an interesting sport anymore. Not a level playing field.

 

Q: Is it true that you and Minnie Driver had never met before that coffee shop?

 

A: Yes

 

Q: Did you just ad-lib that whole wikipedia definition?

 

A: No, it was really there on the phone, see? (holds up phone)

 

Q: What advice would you give someone who wants to get into comedy?


A: It’s about doing it over and over again. You have to just do as many shows as you can, and you don’t even know where you are until after 100 shows. Keep persisting and you can get through. I didn’t do everything right and had upsa nd downs but kept on pushing for it and got through eventually.

 

Q: Which do you like better? Stage Comedy Shows or TV work?

 

A: They’re both great, the Riches is so fast you get up really early and everything gets done very fast. Comedy is different, you wait around all day and then expend all your energy in about 2 hours in the show. But if I had my choice I would just do films because that is my favorite thing to do.

 

Q: How do you like Chicago?

 

A: It’s a bit cold really. But it’s nice that people really walk around the downtown area everyday. In some of these downtowns, there isn’t anyone walking around ever.

 

The Zeus heckler guy was there re-affirming the greek pronunciation of Jesus that he was shouting from the balcony during the show. Something like e-zeus or hesus? Eddie thought the Spanish pronunciation was what he was saying but I am not sure they ever quite understood each other. Another heckler yelled out Jeezy Creezy from Circle also, but they didn't come to the stage door afterwards.

 

The woman who plays his assistant from The Riches was also in Chicago and came into the alley while the swarm of people was asking him questions. The waters parted, they walked through and went inside and he went on chatting.

 

Eddie seemed a bit tired and it was hard to hear him over the Chicago downtown outside noise. He was polite as people gushed over him and everything went on for about 25 minutes. Then he took 2 final questions and went back inside with the 6 person entourage and that was it. 

Overall, I would say this was a good show to see, but not at 100% yet. My comments about Friday get better.


My other blogs
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I just wanted to mention that if you were curious where else I blog you can find my snark at these 2 other addresses: 

http://chicagoweekendfun.com  About all things Chicago.

http://www.theprotagonist5.wordpress.com  Another blog of my marketing and other random thoughts on wordpress.

If you have a blog and could add those 2 links to your blog rolls it would be greatly appreciated. 

And if you can help out my boyfriend Steve, his site is http://www.teamits.com . They do everything tech from networks to phone systems to building computers, web hosting and web sites. A link for them would be a great help to a small company.

It is always good to get new links from blogs and find new people to meet and converse with online too. I just wanted to ask since so many of you have local blogs and post about fun stuff too. 

If you want a link also, let me know and I am happy to oblige.

Eddie Izzard coming to Chicago in May 2008
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I just thought I would get the word out since this is guaranteed to be a great show: 

http://www.ticketmaster.com/artist/851852/

Tickets go on Sale Wednesday 3/5/08 at 10AM.

The secret fansite password is STRIP

They will all sell out.

The Chicago Theater is beautiful and awesome all by itself too.

Get there early to get good seats to see Eddie Izzard perform live! 

This is unbelievably rare to see him in Chicago.


60 inches of Snow this winter in Chicago
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Tom Skilling said that we have already had over 40 inches of snow this winter 07-08 in Chicago and by the time spring hits we will most likley be over 60 inches of snow. This is crazy. We are scheduled to get 9 more inches of snow tonight too. It melts pretty fast but still, he said we usually have under 20 inches of snow, so this isn't just me, we really are getting tripple the snow this year. How has global warming caused this?

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Pocky at Walgreens
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I just wanted to share the news that they sell Pocky now at Walgreens. The one downstairs on Michigan Ave has 2 rows of them on the shelf with the snack bars and cookies. They are $2.99 for most boxes but each box is has 2 packs of pocky sticks in it. They are larger size boxes. Still it is cool that they have gotten to a point where middle America likes Pocky now and views it as a fun snack. I first saw pocky in High School when an Asian friend had them and have been a fan ever since. If you are new to Pocky they are basically small thin cookie sticks that are dipped in chocolate and sometimes also nuts. They come in a wide variety of chocolate flavors and the ones that are at the Walgreens are chocolate, green tea, strawberry, nuts and some Pocky Desert sticks that look interesting too. Check them out the next time you happen to be in a walgreens.

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